On what would have been his 85th birthday I
salute the world’s honorary grandpa.
I love this man really I do.
In a way he is the embodiment of the American dream. Starting from simple beginnings in the West
End in Boston he became world famous for portraying a character that has lasted
in popular culture for decades. Yet
through it all he remained humble, generous, and down to Earth. I had the good fortune to see him at one of
his photography talks when he was promoting Secret
Selves and it was at that time that I began to realize my secret self was
him. He brought dedication, passion, and
honour to everything he did as an artist and that’s something I try to always remember
about my own work.
The thing that makes him have such a lasting impression on
me was his humanity. It’s easy to forget
looking back on all the success that’s come since that Spock was the first steady
job Nimoy had ever had as an actor and his was 35 when that happened. Also he was never shy about talking about the
struggle of those early years, about being bitter and angry at trying to build
a career to support his family. About
taking every acting job that came along and working all kinds of side jobs to
make end meet. It serves as a wonderful
reminder that no one is perfect and that no one’s life is perfect all the time. Even when success came there were still
family issues and alcohol and smoking.
As he said in his final tweet “A life is like a garden. Perfect moments can be had, but not preserved,
except in memory.”
Yet Nimoy tended the garden of his life faithfully even when
it was hard. He was constantly trying
new things like photography, acting, singing, voice work, sailing, directing,
writing, poetry the list goes on. And he
was always willing to share what he had with others whether that was supporting
projects like the Griffith Observatory renovation or the Talia theatre rejuvenation
in New York. Or even just individuals
like Zachary Quinto and his cousin Jeff Nimoy.
He was willing to share with the fans too going to convention after
convention for decades on end. Even at
the end he was willing to share a lot of his struggle with COPD; to spread
awareness of it and highlight the dangers of smoking and the importance of
quitting early. He could have shut
himself away in those final months, but instead he was skyping, tweeting, and promoting
shopLLAP that he ran with his granddaughter Dani. He was even in the planning stages of new
projects that are now being carried out by his son Adam and daughter Julie.
So although it still hurts that he’s gone I can take comfort
in the fact that a beautiful, happy, fulfilling, impactful life was lived and
that’s the most we could ever ask for. The
legend is gone, but his memory will truly live long and prosper.
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